Unconditional Love

I just can't absorb the idea of conditional love, there isn't such a thing as a conditional love. It just doesn't make sense to me, how can love be conditional in the first place!! It is interesting that some may adopt the concept of "Conditional Love"!!

The nature of love is to be unconditional, to totally fall head over heals, to levitate and fully give and not wait for a return, refunds do not exist, to willingly compromise to keep moving, to ultimately unite and witness each other's lives and to accept each others flaws.

Love is pure and simple, the love of your best friend, the love siblings, the parental love and any form that love may take. We are humans and that is unconditional, there aren't states for conditional feelings, breathes, or even the heart beats. Those are emotions, no one can govern such intangibles, those aren't attitudes or actions that one might cultivate or change it according to circumstances. We do not add attributes to the equation in order to steer it as we wish.

I love you for who you are, for what you resemble, for everything that you are and everything that you do, for yourself. I ain't having conditions to change the way I feel!! I love you and that's it. Love isn't complicated and isn't an object to shape it the way we see fit. What would this world turn to be if we start to apply restrictions to our emotions and specially when it comes to love!!!

Why would someone apply conditions for emotions, I just don't get it. Who was it that brought up the idea of unconditional love as love itself isn't that in its absolute meaning. You do give and you do occasionally get, we change, we evolve and we adapt with our loved ones changes.

We love and we hate, and there are moments when love might seem isn't in its right place, but we don't switch it off or shift it to the other channel. Disagreements may rise but it doesn't effect our true emotions at all, it doesn't mean we should love less turn the knob into another channel. Gray areas do not exist in love, emotions either fall in love category or permanently placed in another segment. Even if the one we love develops new habits and change in attitude, we still love them for what they used to be and guide them back if they ever stray. In our ups and downs we endeavor into one fact that we shall never in any circumstances overlook our emotions.

There are no exceptions and no extreme cases for love to be conditional, it simply loses its ultimate meaning if that is the case. Even if by some miraculous way one might be drained out of love, it just doesn't mean that there are conditions, it simply takes another form and then it resurrects all over again. If it doesn't, then it wasn't love, it was something entirely different.